KNOWING YOUR IDENTITY WILL ENABLE YOU TO LOVE

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.”

It is important to know yourself before you can love another. It is important to trust yourself before you can put your trust in someone else’s hands. When you begin to love someone, make sure you are not seeking somebody who is going to make you feel special.

To love love someone means that you are willing to make the other person feel special. You are not supposed to set the standard for the kind of love you should receive in return.

It is much better to love, sit back, and let the other person decide what value they will place on you and the love that you give them. Imagine picking out your own birthday present every year😟…

That is why it’s important to know your Identity so that you don’t run around trying to Love Yourself through another person.

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Free Love.

“Be careful the depth in which you love. Because that could be the depth of your heart break”

How can I say I truly love a person if I do not give them all of my love? Love is a healer, not a killer.

When you claim to have found a person who you love, you need to be talking about that very special person who makes you feel safe, you have to be speaking about that person that you can finally trust, and you need to be talking about the person who takes your heart away and doesn’t allow you to give him/her your love in installments

This is a kind of Love without Conditions. Of course there’s fear of the unknown, we are too often afraid that if we make ourselves vulnerable to the one we Love, they might take us for granted and crush us.

But the darkness can only be eliminated when there is light. If you love someone you have to be willing to walk into that person’s darkest corners of his heart. Your love will be your lamp and you will explore the hidden treasures of your loved one’s soul.

Be careful the depth you love – it could be the difference between a continued Life without Love and trust, or a Life forever transformed because of the Love one person has for another.

Are you the Right person for the Love you seek?

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. Now as a man I have left my childhood ways behind me.-

Are you still thinking of Love with the Childhood mindset?

Love is not a fairytale. We have grown up thinking that we will one day meet “The Right” person, get married, have kids and do all the wildest things and live happily ever after.

If you are still looking for this kind of love, STOP!
The truth is that you are not going to meet the right person. But you may meet somebody who could make themselves the right person. The only Catch with this is that you are also going to have to make some changes.

Before you say you want the right person. You have to ask yourself, “Am I the person that the person I am looking for is looking for?”
Are you the right person for the person you want to be with? If you are not then you have to start working on yourself to become that person.

With Great BEAUTY comes Great RESPONSIBILITY

We’ve all heard the saying, “with Great Power comes Great Responsibility”. Well how many of us are aware that beauty is a powerful element to life?

A beautiful woman knows that she is bound to get attention from many men and a handsome man knows he’s got an advantage over the other guys. But being beautiful can be stressful. All these eyes are on you, ready to like your Instagram pics but also, make one mistake and they have already prepared the judgement they can make about you without even knowing you.

So there comes a time when every beautiful person finally decides to settle down and be serious with a certain somebody (or at least I hope that’s the case). But no matter how much they make it obvious that they are taken and in a happy and satisfying relationship, the admirers will continue to offer a “better love” or even “friends with benefits” kinda thing.

This is why it is important that as a beautiful person, you realise your power and learn to control it because of you don’t , it will control you. Yes your beauty can control you. If you don’t control your beauty you will find yourself giving it out to every paying customer, and when everybody has tasted your beauty, it becomes stale. Don’t let your beauty become stale just because you wanted to share it with more people. Allow people to admire your beauty. The more they see what they can’t have, the more they will want it and you can feel beautiful for longer, maybe even forever. Just remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and many people often hold on to assets longer when they don’t know it’s true potential.

Stay beautiful

Real Advantages of Long Distance Relationships

It’s sad to say but we’ve all been in some kind of Long Distance Relationship. Which is why I find it a suitable topic to begin our adventurous search for Magic and Passion.
But Long Distance Relationships are not always bad, Some of us actually love this Kind of romance because:

1. You get to have someone to love without actually having to do anything for them. You know personal space is important.

2. Long Distance relationships rely on telling telling each other how you feel and most of us just need to be told that we are beautiful/handsome and that our beauty is noticed.

3. For those of you on the CHEAP side like me, isn’t it better to send Bae an emoji bouquet🌼 with 12 roses and that chocolate emoji🍫? After all, it’s the thought that counts right?

4. Cheating! Yes you F-boys and F-Girls can keep bae at a safe distance, just at the right point for you to come home at night and send that “Goodnight I love you and miss you” text…while you been with whoever and them all day. We see you.👀

5. It is easy to create meaningful moments and memories together with the promise that we will one day make it come true.

6. You can be whoever you want to be. Bae will never prove that you are actually the boring couch potato you really are if you keep telling him that you’ve been out with the girls all weekend.

Hehe we leave it there for now. I hope you could relate to this first post. But if you didn’t, share with a friend who is currently in a long distance relationship 😂 thank you guys. I won’t take too long with the next one ❤. Please like the page and share ☺

The First Post: LOVE

A friend of mine told me that in order for one to Win in this World there has to be a Loser to compensate and keep the Balance. He told me that there is no time to bring emotions into this cruel world because that will keep me from the money. I agreed with him in this regard because that is the value of money. When everybody has it, it becomes meaningless. I can only ever know I am poor when I have seen a rich person.

So that is the value of money and that is how it was meant to work. But now we have adapted the same system into our love lives and we only value our loved ones when they are no longer around. The morning kisses from your mother, the routine hug from your best friend and even that awkward attention from your crush…we only realise how good they made us feel when they’re no longer within reach.

So I thought of this briefly before I could end the conversation with my friend and I came to the conclusion that I CANNOT completely ignore my emotions because I am afraid of a world with no love. A world with no sympathy and a world where it’s “Every man for himself”…long story short, I started this blog in the hopes that I can encourage our hearts to beat once more in the name of love.

Because the value of Love is in contrast with the value of money. The value of Love is such that when everyone has it – that is the moment it becomes most effective.

Give Love a chance, it will not be easy, but it may just start a chain reaction in your heart which you can never turn back from. And that’s the kind of addiction this world needs